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A marae is a Māori meeting ground, a community centre, and a sacred place. It's not a museum. Visitors who show up unsure of the protocol risk offending the hosts, even when their intentions are good. The basics are: take your shoes off at the wharenui (meeting house), bring a koha (gift / donation), follow the hosts' lead on the pōwhiri if there is one, do not sit on tables or pillows (these are tapu / sacred), and do not pass food over a person's head.
This tool generates a short brief customised to your visit context and region. It is a starting point — every marae and iwi is different, so always confirm with your hosts.
How to read the result
- Koha — recommended donation; $20–$50 per person is typical for casual visits.
- Hongi — the press of noses and forehead during welcome; optional, follow the host's lead.
- Takahi — the threshold of the wharenui; do not step over it; pause and bow your head.
- Pōwhiri — formal welcome. Wāhine (women) sit on left, tāne (men) on right. Don't speak unless called on.
Limitations
- Protocols vary by iwi and hapū. This is a general guide based on Te Ara and NZ Government published materials.
- For tangihanga (funerals), specific whaikōrero (speech) etiquette is intricate; defer to your hosts.
FAQ
Q: Can I wear shoes inside?
A: No. Take them off at the door of the wharenui.
A: No. Take them off at the door of the wharenui.
Q: Is the hongi compulsory?
A: No — follow the host's lead. Some hosts skip it. A smile and a handshake is also acceptable.
A: No — follow the host's lead. Some hosts skip it. A smile and a handshake is also acceptable.
Q: What if I'm invited to speak?
A: Don't. Wait to be called on. If you do speak, brief, in English or Māori, with respect.
A: Don't. Wait to be called on. If you do speak, brief, in English or Māori, with respect.